HAS “FRIENDSHIP” ITS OWN DAY,
OR IT'S THE DAY OF COMMERCIAL
MARKETING?

July 17th, 2009

Friendship is dismissed much more in times of crisis, that exist mostly for sustaining values and the only important things are personal interests.

It's the case of our country right now, because of other circumstances, always changing, it has been since many years.

But it is also the case of the non-understanding of LOVE that brings FRIENDSHIP.

This one has, with no chance of a doubt, pretty surely, its most beautiful expression.

Because the love of partners, of marriage, brings out always interests of different orders, but it doesn't escape from human misery.

Friendship between men and women, in comparison to the one between women and between men themselves, its the most impressive, infinite, and almost unbreakable one from human relations.

There's nothing in it that alters that election.

The strongest relation of friendship is the one between a woman and a man, because in doesn't exist in it more than the LOVE of LOVING the one that you care well.

That friendship has it own foundations, in which each other gives everything to the other without asking for a retrieval.

And that's mutual; it's the fire that feeds the relationship, the continuous will of wellness of the other component of it.

There are a thousand of disagrees, discussions and everything else that are just a "condiment" that corresponds to the act of living with the other, enjoying of each other, but they're just normal moments that with time arrive to an embrace.

And after all that, it's innocuous the reason of the non-reason of having to buy a gift for the "friend's day", as like it was the only day that you remember of a friend. And surely, what you do is to reunite "a million of friends", which is the same as not having any friend.

Because you have no more real girlfriends and boyfriends than the fingers of one hand, and everything else is false, is just like you loved four, five or ten people... you simply don't love anyone.

That doesn't happen normally between couples, as they have "interests", from jealousness to patrimonial situations and generic envy.

Also, friendships between men and between women have their own "contras" that are limitant, beginning with envy and finishing, skipping many other things, with the arrival of a third.

The one and the other live friendship giving, caring and hoping that the beloved is having his/her best time.

For all this, let's forget "friend's day", and let's be friends everyday!!!!


El Editor