Friendship is
dismissed much more in times of crisis, that exist mostly for
sustaining values and the only important things are personal
interests.
It's the case of our country right now, because of other
circumstances, always changing, it has been since many years.
But it is also the case of the non-understanding of LOVE that
brings FRIENDSHIP.
This one has, with no chance of a doubt, pretty surely, its
most beautiful expression.
Because the love of partners, of marriage, brings out always
interests of different orders, but it doesn't escape from
human misery.
Friendship between men and women, in comparison to the one
between women and between men themselves, its the most
impressive, infinite, and almost unbreakable one from human
relations.
There's nothing in it that alters that election.
The strongest relation of friendship is the one between a
woman and a man, because in doesn't exist in it more than the
LOVE of LOVING the one that you care well.
That friendship has it own foundations, in which each other
gives everything to the other without asking for a retrieval.
And that's mutual; it's the fire that feeds the relationship,
the continuous will of wellness of the other component of it.
There are a thousand of disagrees, discussions and everything
else that are just a "condiment" that corresponds to the act
of living with the other, enjoying of each other, but they're
just normal moments that with time arrive to an embrace.
And after all that, it's innocuous the reason of the
non-reason of having to buy a gift for the "friend's day", as
like it was the only day that you remember of a friend. And
surely, what you do is to reunite "a million of friends",
which is the same as not having any friend.
Because you have no more real girlfriends and boyfriends than
the fingers of one hand, and everything else is false, is just
like you loved four, five or ten people... you simply don't
love anyone.
That doesn't happen normally between couples, as they have
"interests", from jealousness to patrimonial situations and
generic envy.
Also, friendships between men and between women have their own
"contras" that are limitant, beginning with envy and
finishing, skipping many other things, with the arrival of a
third.
The one and the other live friendship giving, caring and
hoping that the beloved is having his/her best time.
For all this, let's forget "friend's day", and let's be
friends everyday!!!!![](../images/marijan.GIF)
El Editor